God designed us to live in families, communities, and congregations. We should always stay open and be willing to take advice. But after we’ve prayed about something and looked at all the options, we have to be bold enough to make a decision that is right for us. We need to remember though, if we’re trying to please everybody else by doing things we don’t really want to do, we will be cheating ourselves. We can run ourselves in circles trying to be something that we’re not, and we’ll run the risk of missing out on God’s best for our own lives.