The thing that satisfies the deepest longing of your being is a relationship or friendship with someone. There is something in the nature of people, something that is built into people that desires to be wanted, to be needed, to be fulfilled and loved. Those desires are fulfilled only in relationships and friendships. In almost every crisis time in your life, you can see it caused by ruptured or strained or broken relationships. Look at the world around us and you will see the very same pattern. Every crime, every war which has brought untold broken hopes, lives and dreams has resulted from wrong relationships and bad friendships.