Far too many people have that kind of relationship with the Lord. Let me throw out three words which define many people’s relationship with the God: Casual, convenient, & comfortable.
The word casual means occasional...….coming at certain times, without regularity; showing little interest or concern; nonchalant; not close or intimate.
Convenient: Being suitable to one’s comfort, purposes, or needs. The faith of many is driven by convenience, and fails when it is challenged to true discipleship.
Comfortable: We want to meet in air conditioned building in the summer, and a heated building in the winter, we want to hear sermons that make us feel good, and God forbid if we should ever be made to feel uncomfortable or asked to do something that we’re not comfortable with doing.